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Wednesday, January 06, 2010

步入新一年的第一个星期,我将会参加两位朋友的21岁生日。
这应该只是开头吧~接下来一整年,我想聚会将源源不断,包括自己的在内=P
不过我怕麻烦,
也许一切会从简=P
oh ya speaking of friends,
i do have a feel words to say with regards to some recent things that happened nt long ago.
i have excellent friends so this kind of things dun happen to me.
but i get really pissed when i hear such stories from my friend.
ok in order to prevent unnecessary trouble, i shant reveal the identity of my friend.


my friend A has a group of friends from xxx school.
my friend sincerely treat them as best buddies and often went out together.
on one occasion, they decided on a venue for outing.
however due to some 不得已 reason, my friend asked for a change of venue last minute.
everyone agreed and they went out, HAPPILY~
yes i bold the HAPPILY.
few days later when my friend browse thru their blog,
she realise they wrote post to express their disappointment for the last-min change last outing.
and they specifically pointed out that it's my friend A who asked for the change.


ok if it's some private blog for their own reading then forget it.
but those friends KNEW that my friend A will browse thru the blogs.
even if it's a daily entry to keep a record of their life,
cant they spare a thought for those who read the post????
cant they even spare a thought for my friend who read it and felt so bad for the whole evening?
frankly, if i'm the one in the story, i'd really appreciate it if
they talk to me immediately and nt saying ok to the whole arrangement
and grumble deep down behind my back.
it's not some acquaintance, it's CLOSE FRIENDS!


ok here's another 1..from my friend B.
this friend has a group of good buddies as well
but has decided not to be a burdan for parents
and so..is feeding ownself aka earning own pocket money through tuition.
my friend B often go out with them as well but...
the group of buddies like to hav good time and often went on high-budget outing.
when my friend cant join them becos of financial reason,
they'll request my friend to save money.
for example: hey it's just a movie, 9bucks is savable!
and on and on...
but they left out impt things: 1st movie, then meal together, on top of transport!
and if u dun hav enough cash, they'll reply: i lend u=)


so...does borrowing money means dun hav to pay back??
seriously i dont like how my friends r treated by their other clique of friends.
friends should be some1 who care for u and ur feeling?
and helping u when u face prob?
right??? or am i being old-fashioned?
should my viewpt be abolished in such a modern society where kids are SO PAMPERED?
u can say i'm not being up-to-date but spending is ok provided if it's within ur means.
ur means may not b the same as ur friend!
and..though i knew u few will never come across my blog,
but still..hope some1 will knock sense into ur brain
and tell you to be more sensitive and caring for people beside you!
5:05 PM

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